Attachment and PACE

14 September 2026 · admin · 1 min read

This course is grounded in attachment theory and in Dr Dan Hughes’ PACE model, described by Hughes himself as “a way of being” rather than a technique, and connects directly to the Positive Relationships and Health and Wellbeing Quality Standards within the Children’s Homes (England) Regulations 2015.

Nearly every child in residential care has experienced some genuine disruption to early relationships, and understanding how this shapes their expectations of adults, and learning to respond in a way that genuinely helps rather than confirms old fears, sits at the heart of good residential child care. Written for registered managers and residential care staff, this course covers across eighteen lessons what attachment theory tells us, the four attachment patterns, how attachment difficulty shows up day to day, the PACE model and each of its four elements in turn, using PACE in difficult moments, felt safety, being a genuine secure base, consistency across the whole staff team, attachment-aware boundaries, staff self-regulation, and working sensitively with placement moves and multiple past attachment figures.

Course Content

  1. Welcome: Why Early Relationships Shape What Comes Next
  2. The Legal and Quality Standards Framework
  3. What Attachment Theory Tells Us
  4. The Four Attachment Patterns
  5. How Attachment Difficulty Shows Up in Daily Life
  6. Introducing PACE: A Way of Being, Not a Technique
  7. Playfulness in Practice
  8. Acceptance in Practice
  9. Curiosity in Practice
  10. Empathy in Practice
  11. Using PACE in Difficult Moments
  12. Felt Safety: What It Means and How Staff Build It Day to Day
  13. Being a Genuine Secure Base and Safe Haven
  14. Consistency Across the Whole Staff Team
  15. Attachment-Aware Boundaries
  16. Supporting Your Own Regulation as Staff
  17. Working Sensitively With Placement Moves and Multiple Attachment Figures
  18. Course Summary: A Genuine Way of Being

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